Day 3# – Failure

I can’t believe I missed a day. It’s just been two days and I missed one. If you’ve been paying attention you might have noticed too and I’m very sorry. I guess it’s really easy to believe that no one really cares about what you have to say and to ignore the deadlines you make for yourself. I was having a hard day and I decided that everything can go to hell. I wonder if you have days like that too? If you do, please don’t do what I did. It’s important to push even harder to do the thing that’s hard to do.

Life is all about perception or so I’ve always believed. The whole Laurel or Yanny thing kept me up all night. If you’re not familiar with it chances are that you’re a healthy individual who doesn’t need social media to thrive. But here you go anyway. I’d like to keep my readers informed. Please watch this video and tell me what you hear.

I guess the actual thing is that you can hear both. Yanny it a high note and Laurel is a low note. It becomes obvious after you’ve heard it a few times. But when you’re hearing it for the first few times it can be mind blowing that you hear only one thing while someone else hears another. And there’s that dress. I don’t know if you’ve heard of it. An over exposed image of a black and blue dress appeared to be white and gold and people were torn on which was true was well. These kind of things make me wonder if the universe is even a reality of if it’s just something we perceive and imagine. I don’t know. How can mushrooms taste so good to someone and so bad to me? We’re eating the same thing right?

If a single audio clip can sound so different to everyone and we can live with that, why can’t we do the same for bigger issues in life? One person might believe in certain principles in life while another simply doesn’t care for them. What do we do in situations like that? We judge. We judge without realising the horrible power our criticism has.

I’m sort of a people pleaser so I’ve not been at the bad end of being judged that often. But I have watched people getting judged brutally for silly things. Girls get judged for the number of guys they date and the kind of clothes they wear. So what if you’ve only dated one guy but she’s dated three? So what if you chose to remain a virgin and she did not? I hate conflict so I don’t call out people as much as I should for judging others. Silently watching them do this is not something I’m proud of. Maybe everyone just needs to mind their business.

Speaking of minding my own business, I can’t live with this whole people pleasing aspect of myself. I don’t just dislike conflict, I get panic attacks when someone even argues with me. I can feel my body shutting off when I’ve gotten on someone’s bad side. And when it comes to the people I love, I always seem to need reassurance and attention to prove they still love me. It’s hard. And it needs to stop. That’s the reason behind my “bad day” yesterday, in case you were wondering. If I figure out how to stop that, I’ll let you know. The sad truth is that it might be never.

– The Obsessive Writer

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16 thoughts on “Day 3# – Failure

  1. It’s not a bad thing to be sensitive, and you don’t always have to speak up and argue – it’s not like people are going to listen anyway. We live in an age where everyone fights to be heard, and have no patience to hear out another.
    That’s a lot of loud voices.
    This world has enough outspoken people and fighters as it is. We do need more gentle, quiet people who would rather do things than just go about shouting at each other. The quietest ones often rise to real challenges, and the self-proclaimed bravehearts may just disappear, so you just hold on, girl. Whether you do change it or not, it’s all for the best. If you do change, I’m sure you’ll use your voice wisely. In the event that you don’t, just embrace it. The world needs your silence, too. πŸ™‚

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  2. Ah. You know, for whatever it’s worth, this little corner of the peanut gallery thinks it’s really healthy to have a “to hell with it all” day now and again!!! You’re doing great! And I heard Yanny here. But other times I’ve heard Laurel. On NPR they were saying it completely depends on where You are and what You’re listening on. Really fun though!!! Be sweet to Yourself and Cheers!!! πŸ™‚

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